judging from the way you are on this site it's pretty obvious why you re single, you seem like a total loser, lonely and very desperate. . this is very off putting.
also,the things you say of women are the exact same way you are yourself,but the difference is you are not get anything and you'e crying over it. you are highly self pitiful.
you seem very sex deprived so much that you make a fool of yourself on the internet so much talking about it so much, no woman finds this appealing, especially by a guy at your age. i guess you are not a teenager.
why on earth do you think any self respecting women with anything going on in life would be interested in someone like you? even the type of women you describe on dating site are not interested. it is not a mystery why. it's very very clear!!
no offence, but take a look at you self and ask what is more likely to be true.
Oh - SNAP!
Shit just got real!
Seriously though - I was cheated on by my ex - nothing physical, just texts & pics etc - but I still felt that was being unfaithful so we split up because the trust our relationship was based on was destroyed in my eyes.
When I got with my current girlfriend, I had a bit of a personal journey to make. I had to trust again. But my new girlfriend was still friends with her ex's, still saw some of them socially and even worked with one. WTF? I thought I was gonna play this one like the Panda - eats, shoots, leaves.
But the more time I spent with her, I learned very quickly that if they were an ex - they were an ex for a reason. The last guy she went out with for 7 years and worked with him every day when we met. But she was so open, honest and upfront about everything that despite my initial warnings to myself - I found myself trusting her and fell in love with her.
Her ex of 7 years is now a really good friend of mine too.
I guess what I'm saying is don't give up. If you can't open up and trust someone - you'll never be able to love. Love without trust is nothing - it cracks at the first sign of pressure - I know this to my cost.
I know you have pain and I know you're Depressed, Blue - but don't close the door on women - just be selective about who you open up to.
Good luck bro!